Friendship Red Flags: When Your BFF Becomes a Human Drain Plug

Friendship isn't always sunshine and memes, warns clinical psychologist Miriam Kirmayer in Business Insider. Sure, your buddy might vent more than a broken A/C, but if they treat you like an energy vampire's snack or slap you with ‘brutal honesty’ that’s just abuse wrapped in sarcasm, it’s time to ghost. Kirmayer insists one-sided drama, constant put-downs, ignoring your ‘no,’ or only texting when bored are huge red flags — basically, if your friend acts like a toddler with a megaphone, ditch them before your emotional sanity hits rock bottom.

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Source: Businessinsider | Published: 8/24/2025 | Author: Julia Pugachevsky